I think I left off with making it back to Baguio after a long absence. I rested for those days and then left on Friday for the medical mission in Ilocos Norte. I’ll pick up there. The reason for the title of this will be apparent later.
Well we ended up leaving around 7:30 after breakfast then, Darwin, Nenette, Jerry, and I. We got to the gas station and met up with the rest of the team. It was JR and his wife and Virgie, but no one else I recognized. The champ dentist from the last medical mission showed up but then all of the sudden couldn’t make it, I wasn’t sure why. We had a van rented and JR has his Toyota SUV too. The SUV was super nice and I was placed in there with a couple of dentists. It was very comfortable and far better than any transportation, other than Darwin’s SUV, that I had ridden in so far. We got underway around 8:30 and chatted while we rode down the mountain to the lowlands. It was a beautiful drive and I didn’t realize how close to the coast Baguio is, you can see it if you just get to the right place in the city. Its only about an hour and a half drive away.
The drive was very long but good. We made about 4 or 5 stops along the way to pick up rice cake, chichicorn, and some other rice type products, sweet rice I think, and lunch. It got kind of annoying after a while but oh well, it really did help break up the long drive. It was fun to spend time with the people and the team. We got there around 5 pm, totaling about a 9 hour drive. It was a weird place. It was pretty remote, we drove on a dirt road for about 30 minutes to get there, but the houses that we stayed at were incredibly nice. The place as a whole was remote and primitive, except for these huge houses. It was strange. I was originally going to be put in a half finished house with the other guys, but then apparently there wasn’t enough room so they moved me by myself to a different house. At first I was apprehensive about this, leaving the familiarity of people I know to go somewhere all by myself, but I realized I most likely would have my own room and sleeping space if I did this so I agreed. It turned out fantastic. It ended up having air conditioning and a mattress. It truly was a blessing how wonderful the house was, despite how incredibly weird it was that there was this proverbial oasis in the middle of a primitive village. After being shown to my room, JR told me to rest for a little then walk back to the church where we were doing a film showing. We ate dinner and then had the film showing. The whole time we ate off of banana leaves, it was pretty awesome.

(I tried to edit this picture and rotate it, but every time I did and saved it, it just reverted back to this sideways form…sorry, the best I can do, just turn the computer I guess)
The food itself wasn’t really that good, I didn’t eat a whole ton, but as usual there was rice so I had at least something to eat. The film showing had around 150 people show up and seemed to be received very favorably. It was a good intro to the weekend and setup for the medical mission the next day. We were asked as a group to come up and sing a song before the film showing, it was interesting. Thank God there wasn’t a microphone near me.

Saturday was a day of more strange things. This travel to Ilocos was a different trip to a different culture with different people. We woke up and ate breakfast at 6:30. While we were eating breakfast, an older man walked up and started talking to Betty, an older woman who was helping cook for us. She started wailing and crying all of the sudden at the man that was talking to her. I asked Jerry what was going on and he said that “there has been an accident”. I thought maybe a car accident but I really didn’t know what to expect. Lily, JR’s wife, called me over to pray for this woman and she informed me that this woman’s son was shot and killed the previous day, murdered. Wow. I didn’t know what to pray, I didn’t know what to say and it wouldn’t be the first time in the next 24 hours this would happen to me.
We moved on with the day and started setting up, I quickly removed this from my mind because it seemed that the woman did. Betty was motoring about as normal and didn’t seem to be shaken up at all after we prayed. I didn’t understand it and there are so many miscommunications that I wasn’t sure what exactly had happened. I was with Virgie again in the pharmacy, at this point I was a master and knew exactly what I was doing.

A team from America actually showed up, although I didn’t realize it at the time because they were all Filipino. It turned out that JR’s nephew from the States, Lewis, has been taking youth over here to the Philippines for a number of years now and they joined us in the medical mission. Lewis was wonderful and a pleasure to chat with. We talked throughout the day and it turns out they were going to be in Baguio later that week so I offered to meet up with them and see them again. He mentioned something about a youth rally they are doing, I’m not exactly sure what that is or what it entails, but I think I signed up for it. Should be fun and something to fill my time with. Its crazy that theres really only two weeks left now as I type this on Tuesday. Really crazy, time is absolutely flying.
The medical mission seemed to go really well. The same surgeon from Manila showed up and performed a ton of surgeries again. There were a ton of circumcisions this time, as opposed to zero last time. Older guys, who I wouldn’t expect would ever want to do that, around 16 years old got circumcised. There was a little boy that just couldn’t stand it too. They had to have 3 guys pin him down as he yelled so stinking loud the whole time. Every time a stitch went in he just wailed. People were giggling but I couldn’t help but feel terrible for him. I don’t know if they numb the “area” at all but even if they do it has to be pretty excruciating.
The day was a success, although we didn’t receive the levels of Ambaguio. I totaled everything and had to tell myself that its not about numbers, its about the fact that we actually helped people. Instead of 1,000 we had a total of 326 patients. There were 99 dental and 51 surgeries and over 230 medical patients.
Here is a picture of the group:

After we cleaned up and ate dinner, JR told us we were going over to the house of the woman who’s son was murdered the day before for a short service. It was after dark and we drove about 15 minutes to the other side of the village to the house. It was surreal. I’ll try to describe the strange scene as best I can.
We walk up to the house and there is a light on inside and there are men sitting on the porch outside. There are only women inside, I don’t know why. We slowly file into to a scene that I was not expecting. Remember we are in rural, back-country Philippines, so anything real nice isn’t really expected. We walk in and see the coffin of silver, shiny metal in the light of four huge equally silver and shiny lamp-stands surrounding it. Behind the coffin there are white drapes from the ceiling to the floor with gold embroidery. The coffin itself is open and there is a glass barrier over the dead body. There’s fog above the mans face as if he just finished breathing. He’s dressed in simple white clothes and his hands are at his side. No wounds are visible at all, which makes me wonder where the gunshot wound was that killed him. The inside of the coffin itself is bordered with white silk and gold embroidery, matching the drapes hanging in the background. On the underside of the open lid there is a picture of Jesus, but with lights flashing all around it in a pinwheel fashion, much like bad Christmas lights. In front of the casket on two plastic chairs sit the immediate family survived by this man. There is a young girl who clearly didn’t get it, no more than 6 years old. She fidgeted on the chair while the widow held her in place. The widow is 8 months pregnant. You can see the tears on her face as she stares into the distance, not looking at anything in particular. The tears dry and almost as if timed along with that she looks back over at the coffin and her eyes become moist again. JR walked up to her and offered his condolences. She spoke a response, her mouth moved, but no sounds came out. She made no noise and didn’t seem all together, but who would considering the circumstances? My heart went out to her. It must just be the culture and something I’m missing, but it seemed like no one was very somber. Men were gathering outside as we were taking seats in a semi-circle surrounding the casket. The service starts with praise and worship, some basic songs that are led by the two pastors who have been taking care of us the whole time. Honestly, not one of us knew the man or the woman and we had only met the mother of the man literally 24 hours beforehand. I was struggling with my emotions and also struggling with why the heck we were there in the first place. We were invading this poor widow’s privacy. She barely responded when people talked to her much less when we sang songs and prayed. Then the pastor asks me to say something. Excuse me? I was dumfounded and more than a little frustrated. Why was I being asked to say something? I knew it was an honor and to turn them down would be very rude, but I could think of very few people who would be less qualified than me to say something at that point. I don’t think they realize that I’m only 20 and I’m not a pastor and I’ve never had any training of that sort. It was impromptu and caught me off guard. What does one say at the funeral of a stranger in a foreign country who never attended church and most likely wasn’t a Christian? How do you address that? It was very difficult for me. I ended up stuttering through James 1:2 and explaining that no matter how strange and chaotic life seems sometimes, there is a purpose for everything and every trial will only bring us closer to God if we allow him to work on us. I was told our presence there really encouraged the mother of the man, but I was worried about the widow, I just can’t help but feel we invaded her privacy.

It was an experience, to say the least. It made me think about a lot of things and was a good reminder again of my own mortality. Going through the funeral of stranger that never attended church in a foreign country is a strange and thought provoking experience. I’m still not sure how I feel about the whole thing. We trekked back to the cars and rode back to our respective houses where we part ways and went to bed.
We woke up bright and early and once again. The mantra that “nothing is ever how you expect” continued for me. With how long it took to travel there on Friday and the fact that there were now doctors from Manila with us who had to travel even further, I figured we would get on the road as soon as possible. JR told me we would have a church service around 7 am then I fully expected us to be on the road no later than 8:30. I need to stop expecting things. We didn’t start said church service until 7:45 as we ate breakfast around 7. Now, before the church service started, I made sure to ask JR if I was going to be preaching. He warned me the Wednesday before we left to prepare something just in case, but up until this point I hadn’t heard anything more about it. He said he hadn’t heard anything more either so we both shrugged it off and I left my notes in the car. My rule of thumb here is that with how unpredictable this stuff us, I need to always assume I’ll be asked to preach only up until the actual service starts. I mean, no one starts a church service without first asking a person to preach right? Wrong. It happens. It happened to me. We sing some praise and worship songs and then we go into a time of testimony about the previous day and the medical mission. People go up to the front and share stories, no more than 2 minutes long, about the previous day. During this time of the service JR calls me outside to talk to one of the pastors where I’m asked if I will preach. In ten minutes. I’m not kidding, this actually happened. Thank God I had my patented sermon that I’ve been giving this whole time memorized otherwise I have no idea what I would have done. New rule of thumb: never assume you aren’t going to preach only until there is actually someone else up there at the pulpit preaching. I’m not sure I’m even ready to give in to that yet either, I could foresee some scenario where they ask me to preach as well as someone else or something. Oh well, it went smoothly regardless of the lack of notice and I was told it went really well with the people. After that we had a time of prayer where I was asked to come up and pray for a woman who was sick. Another impromptu request with no details and no warning. Honestly, I was getting very frustrated by this. It was really annoying because I was getting all this undeserved attention just because I’m American. Any number of the people along with our team are both double my age and far more qualified to pray and be a spiritual leader than me. I felt inadequate and pampered and it wasn’t a good feeling. I didn’t want them to ask me to pray just because I was an American. We got through that and then ended the service with songs and prayer and big group pictures. We didn’t end up getting on the road until 10:30 am, much to my surprise.
I really like this picture because of how difficult it is to spot me. Normally, I stick out like a sore thumb in every picture, but my skin tones matches the wall behind me very well and only head is showing so its very difficult to find me at first, at least I think so. I thought it was a funny picture.

We drove for a couple hours and then stopped at Fort Ilocando Resort. It was an absolutely gorgeous, world-class resort. It even had its own mini-zoo with a 5 day old baby monkey. Unfortunately I didn’t have my camera on me so I couldn’t get any pictures. We continued driving and made quite a few stops throughout the day for other tourist locations, sweet rice wrapped in banana leaves, more rice cake, and lunch and dinner. The stops helped break the long trip up and Jerry and I eventually made it back to Darwin’s at 10 pm. It was a long day and I slept well that night.
This is us at the resort:

The next couple of days, Monday and so far today on Tuesday, Darwin and Nenette have been working non-stop because they have the help of some volunteers from the mountains. They worked from 8 am till midnight yesterday. As a result I’ve had a lot of time to myself and I’ve spent time with Dave and Eugene and Laurel and watched a lot of tv. Its been relaxing and really thats what the rest of my trip is going to entail. As I’m typing this now on Tuesday, two weeks from now I’ll be in Japan waiting for my connecting flight to New Jersey. Its crazy how time is flying, at the beginning of the trip I found it hard I would last a week, much less make it to this point. I’m ready to be home though. I’ll keep updating the blog periodically but there really won’t be much more to say as I don’t have anything planned. These journal entries are getting tedious too so I’m not sure how much detail I’ll be willing to type out. We’ll see.
Thank you all again for your support, it means the world to me and I can’t wait to share stories from this trip in person with anyone who wants. Please continue to pray for safe travel and that I make the most of my remaining time here.
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